Take the front seat
in your life,
embrace your
power & vulnerability.
You’ve tried everything — talk therapy, somatic work, dream work, mental analysis, spirituality, coaching, distraction, nervous system regulation — and still… nothing. No visible results.
You’re tired of managing symptoms — burnout, depression, powerlessness, lack of purpose, constant pushing, chasing the next goal, proving yourself in every area, earning yet another qualification, silencing your pain with pleasure.
Are you ready to go beyond all that — to the very root of your symptoms?
This work is deep, sharp, and truly life-changing. Are you ready to take that leap?
I’ll meet you exactly where you are. I’ll teach you the tools and help you apply them. I’ll support you as s you move through self-sabotage patterns and begin meeting deeper layers of yourself. You won’t need me long-term.
Ways we can work together:
This program is designed to teach you the tools in a systematic and organized way, guide you as you implement them, help you grow your skills, and support you in uncovering core subconscious patterns as well as self-sabotaging programs. You will begin to dismantle the lifelong repression mechanisms driving most of your symptoms safely. As these mechanisms release, you reclaim your life, and authenticity emerges in a natural, spontaneous way.
- We’ll meet live twice a month for 90-min (possible more often).
- You’ll have ongoing weekly contact for support as you begin applying the tools on your own.
- You’ll have time to integrate and process everything that arises.
- You’ll receive guidance to help you navigate it all. Learn more
These sessions are ideal if you’re not yet sure whether the mentorship program is right for you OR if you need some deep dive in addition to your mentoring. After each session I will offer advice on how to continue working on your own. Learn more
Read in advance of a session or mentorship
Kiloby Inquiries is not a substitute for, nor offering medical or psychiatric support or care. I cannot and will not diagnose any disorder, condition or illness, and do not profess to treat or cure any disorder, condition or illness.
To find out if this modality is right for you at this moment in your life:
Depth & Clarity
This work has finally given me the clarity I’d been searching for my entire life.
It’s deep, precise, and truly life-changing.
Do you need a mentor?
Yes, especially at the beginning – and sometimes later on – unconscious patterns may sabotage your work. As a mentor I help you recognize these patterns. As we work, unconscious programs reveal themselves – some rooted in attachment styles, others in deep beliefs and coping mechanisms. Through mentorship, you learn to uncover these, connect them with your emotional repression, and navigate your work skillfully. When ready you will walk this path on your own without needing me.
You don’t need to believe anything I say; the answers come from your body. K.I. provides you with the “key” to unlock these insights and gently process them energetically.
Why work with me?
Alongside my own deep, transformative journey, I’ve guided many mentees through emotional repression work – supporting them as they met and integrated their own experiences. I trained with Scott Kiloby, the co-creator of this modality, gaining firsthand experience in both individual and group settings.
Thanks to my own healing and work with others, I co-developed one of the tools called Safety Net – a resource now helping people take their first steps into emotional repression work. Through my work with clients, I’ve seen how often emotional repression lies at the root of common symptoms of suffering. I’ve supported clients in loosening and dismantling that lifelong pattern. These patterns often show up as:
- Difficulty setting boundaries or connecting authentically in relationships
- Anxiety or a sense of inner restlessness
- Depression, burnout, or feelings of emptiness
- Stuckness, procrastination
- Difficulty expressing emotions, feeling disconnected or emotionally blocked
- Chronic tension, unexplained pain, headaches, or migraines
- Sleep disturbances, fatigue
- Self-sabotaging habits,
- Avoidance, workaholism, or compulsions
Aleksandra is a really sharp K.I. facilitator. I have worked with many people, but the way that Aleksandra combines calmness, skills and directness is unique. I feel safe during our session and we have uncovered many layers that I was not able to do myself even though I have worked with KI and other methods for a long time.
I think it is always important to receive help no matter where you are in life and Aleksandra is definitely a person that I can recommend if you are seeking someone to guide you or mentor you. Thank you.
– Melissa Miri –
How do I know if I have emotional repression?
The easiest way to start is with a somatic test — subscribe to my newsletter and you’ll receive a 3-day package that includes a repression test, an attachment style test, and a guided meditation.
However, signs of emotional repression often show up in everyday life. They can appear as many forms of suffering, such as self-limiting beliefs, repetitive relationship patterns, depression, procrastination, compulsions, addictions, chronic pain, or illness – just to name a few. Research confirms that emotional repression is at the root of many health conditions.
The tricky part is that we often fail to connect these symptoms to repression because of its hidden nature. It operates behind the scenes, shaping our lives without our conscious awareness. Meditation, intellectual insight, or mental understanding alone can’t fully uncover it, because these tools don’t directly access the repression mechanism itself.
With K.I. tools, you can finally meet it directly. This work is deeply experiential: until you practice it, repression stays hidden in the body. Understanding it conceptually is helpful, but real change happens when you work with it directly, not because you change yourself but because you embrace all parts of yourself.
Why does that matter?
Repression is an unconscious defense mechanism – initially protective and innocent at its root but often harmful in the long run, affecting emotional and mental clarity, physical health, and the ability to connect with yourself and others.
Through mentorship, you’ll learn practical tools to create mind-body connection and release the stuck energy in your body caused by repressed emotions. When approached with skill and care, this work helps you uncover deeper layers of authenticity and natural vitality. It’s not a quick fix or a feel-good treatment, but a path to lasting transformation.